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Community forum where you can ask real-time questions
Live Q&A calls to help you get unstuck and move forward
Prizes! Get $50 Zeva Credit for submitting your completed limit list, get $75 if you also complete the Implementation Workbook - can use credit toward anything here


Everything you need to confidently explore kink/BDSM... finally.

- 275+ inventory items, pre-sorted into four "intensity levels" and seven activity categories
- Several trauma-sensitive features, including filters and spots to list triggers
- Basic info sheet with dropdown menus to share key info with new partners (e.g., pronouns, medical concerns)
- Google Sheet + Airtable options for the limit list

- Videos about what limit lists are, how to use them, and when to share and update your limit lists
- Written summary of the content beneath videos
- Includes walkthroughs for Google Sheet template, Airtable template, and Limit List Implementation Guide
- Google Sheet + Airtable options for the limit list

- Workbook + video walk-through to EASILY turn your completed limit list into FUN sexy scenes
- Guidelines for negotiation conversations (for pickup play AND with regular partners)
- Step-by-step process to help reduce the overwhelm



Beginner-friendly tutorials and checklists help you get started quickly

Trauma-sensitive filters reduce nervous system overwhelm

Spreadsheet magic helps you update and negotiate like a pro
Please note: Not all feedback is directly related to the limit list... some of these people are commenting on other programs or offers I've developed in the past 5 years.


"Looking at the limit list you made, I can see it is put together much better than what I'm currently using... it is easy to manage on the computer. I must say your list is far better than any list I have seen."

"Zeva exceeded my expectations and did an amazing job making me feel comfortable talking about sensitive issues. Since my session, I’ve already had much better communication, better sex, and more self-confidence."
Stop stressing and start sceneing.
Watch our walkthrough video to see the limit list in action!
Better BDSM Limit List Templates: 2-page spreadsheet template with 275+ presorted inventory items, filters, and other trauma-sensitive features to minimize nervous system overwhelm. Google Sheets + Airtable versions.
Course Videos & Walkthroughs: Video lessons explaining what a limit list is, why it's necessary, how/when to share and update it, and other important info!
Limit List Implementation Guide: Video tutorials teaching you to use your limit list to create a sexy scene + a 9-page workbook. Real-talk strategies to prep scenes and provide effective aftercare.
Get-It-Done Week: Access to a community forum, live Q&A calls, and the opportunity to win prizes for completing the activities during the week... up to $75 in Zeva Credit that you can use on any of my workshops, self-paced products, or even 1:1 coaching
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Hi there! My name is Zeva, and I'm a former Catholic goody-two-shoes turned energy healer, kink/BDSM coach, and erotic novelist. After healing a lot of my own harmful beliefs about sex, relationships, and body autonomy, I decided to become the coach and educator I wished I'd had.
I've been helping people heal from sexual trauma since 2019, and I've also introduced several people to kink/BDSM during that time, too. (I claim it's my kinky superpower. )
But one thing made my job more difficult. I didn't have a way to help my clients who have suffered from sexual trauma get clear on what kinks they wanted to explore... in a way that didn't overwhelm and frighten them.
So, I zipped up my leather boots and made the Better BDSM Limit List for them... and for you.
Your questions, answered.
- How long do I have access to these materials?Indefinitely! When you purchase Better BDSM Limit Listâ„¢, you'll receive access to ALL the digital content, including the bonuses and product updates, without paying another penny. You can use the money that you save on "sexy time" toys and gear instead.
- I'm completely new to kink/BDSM. Will I still be able to use this product?Absolutely! I created Better BDSM Limit List™ with beginners specifically in mind. There's also a series of simple walkthrough videos that completely explain how to use the spreadsheet template. Third, within the spreadsheet, there's also four intensity categories. If you are new to kink/BDSM, I recommend looking at the ‘Mild’ category to begin with.
- I'm very experienced with BDSM and already have a limit list. How is this better than what I use right now?Great question! I created the Better BDSM Limit Listâ„¢ because I wanted a better list for myself and my clients that wasn't so overwhelming. Unlike other lists I've come across, this limit list has filters, and sortable categories so you can more easily find what you're looking for in your list or a partner's list. This feature is especially handy when you (or a partner) have triggers around specific activities. You can also more effectively "chunk" your time spent on identifying/updating your limits because you can sort and filter the 275+ inventory items on the Better BDSM Limit List.
Second, I'm always soliciting feedback on how I can make this product better, and often it's from folx who have decades of practicing and teaching about kink/BDSM, i.e., people who know their shit. If they think it has value, I'm confident you will, too. - I don't have a partner. What value will I find in this product?Definitely! Even if you don’t have a partner, you can absolutely still explore and experience kink/BDSM. In fact, I first joined the kink community when I was single, and identifying my limits was a first important step for me to feel safe playing with others. You'll also have ongoing access to this product, so you can always revisit the Better BDSM Limit List™ at a later date when you do have a partner.
- Do you accept refunds?Due to the digital nature of this product—and that you can define your limits in just 30 minutes—we do not offer refunds of any kind after purchase. We LOVE receiving feedback and are committed to making this product the best it can be; if there are features you’d like us to add to the limits list, simply let us know! In all reality, once you go through this program, you'll think 'referral' more than 'refund.' We pay a 40% commission to our affiliates on all our products and self-paced courses, so you can make LOTS of money.
- I have another question not listed here.Great! I'm a curious soul myself, and as an educator at-heart, I love answering questions. Simply send an email to kellynoelzeva@gmail.com and I'll respond to your inquiry within 2-3 business days.
- What's this Get-It-Done Week?The Get-It-Done Week is happening from May 6-12, and it's designed to help you implement the training so it's not just another course or template that sits in your digital ether collecting dust. You'll get community support, live Q&A calls, and earn prizes for submitting your completed limit list and implementation workbook... up to $75 in Zeva Credit that you can use towards my products, paid workshops, or 1:1 coaching.
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