Better BDSM Limit List Get-It-Done-Week 

Saturday, February 3 - Sunday, February 11

For the first time ever, I'm running a Get-It-Done Week for the Better BDSM Limit List!

Pop-up Facebook group just for course participants

Two (2) live coworking sessions throughout the week to get 'er done

  1-week challenge where you'll earn $75 Zeva Credit and an invite to an exclusive Ask-Me-Anything (AMA)  

 Entry to win raffle prizes worth $1,500+ 


Talk about some serious motivation and accountability!

Small print: To earn these prizes and be eligible for most raffle items, you'll need to complete the challenge form inside the course no later than 11am EST (4pm UK time, 8am PST) on Sunday, February 11 to be eligible. Additional details inside the course. 


Meet your secret weapon that will help you identify your kinky limits without overwhelm.

$47   $27!


"Working with Kelly Noel has been life-changing."

I've been coaching with Kelly Noel for 6 months. I've released fear, anxiety... so much of what I've been holding onto, and I feel so light. I feel on the verge of a great relationship, and I'm loving myself more than ever before!


- Paul N., Creator & Podcaster

What's inside...

Everything you need to confidently explore kink/BDSM... finally.

Better BDSM Limit List Spreadsheet
Valued at $47
  • 275+ inventory items, pre-sorted into four "intensity levels" and seven activity categories 
  • Several trauma-sensitive features, including filters and spots to list triggers
  • Basic info sheet with dropdown menus to share key info with new partners (e.g., pronouns, medical concerns)


Limit List Implementation Guide
Valued at $47
  • Short video tutorials to help you use your limit list
  • Real-talk strategies to EASILY turn your completed limit list into FUN sexy scenes that help you feel freer
  • Provides the TL;DR version of my BDSM for Beginners Framework to make sure you're not missing ANYTHING


BONUS: Kinkmas Shopping Guide
Valued at $17
  • Includes 30+ toys, sorted by kink/fetish, rated based on usability, accessibility, and other features
  • Links to local and ethical businesses so you feel good about where your dollars are going
  • Sections for costumes and lingerie, accessories, and must-have aftercare items


Beginner-friendly tutorials and checklists help you get started quickly

Trauma-sensitive filters reduce nervous system overwhelm

Spreadsheet magic helps you update and negotiate like a pro


Customers are saying...
Barb C.
Former Client

"I came to Kelly Noel when my self-esteem was low and I needed spiritual rejuvenation. The last year has been nothing short of wonderful. Kelly Noel takes care of their clients; they're young, but an old soul."

Joey S.
Coach & Educator


"Kelly Noel exceeded my expectations and did an amazing job making me feel comfortable talking about sensitive issues. Since my session, I’ve already had much better communication, better sex, and more self-confidence."

Stop stressing and start sceneing.

Watch our walkthrough video to see the limit list in action! 

Let's recap...

Better BDSM Limit List ($47 value): 2-page spreadsheet template with 275+ presorted inventory items, filters, and other trauma-sensitive features to minimize nervous system overwhelm.

Limit List Implementation Guide ($47 value): Video tutorials teaching you to use your limit list to create a sexy scene. Includes real-talk strategies to prep scenes and provide effective aftercare.

Ultimate Kinkmas Shopping List ($17 value): Reviews of 30+ must-have toys, plus a list of other scene necessities. Links to ethical sex shops so you feel good about where your money is going.

$47   ONLY $27!

Just who made this limit list thing?

Hi there! My name is Kelly Noel Zeva, and I'm a former Catholic goody-two-shoes turned energy healer, kink/BDSM coach, and erotic novelist. After healing a lot of my own harmful beliefs about sex, relationships, and body autonomy, I decided to become the coach and educator I wished I'd had.


I've been helping people heal from sexual trauma since 2019, and I've also introduced several people to kink/BDSM during that time, too. (I claim it's my kinky superpower. 


But one thing made my job more difficult. I didn't have a way to help my clients who have suffered from sexual trauma get clear on what kinks they wanted to explore... in a way that didn't overwhelm and frighten them.


So, I zipped up my leather boots and made the Better BDSM Limit List for them... and for you.


Your questions, answered.

  • How long do I have access to these materials?
    Indefinitely! When you purchase Better BDSM Limit Listâ„¢, you'll receive access to ALL the digital content, including the bonuses and product updates, without paying another penny. You can use the money that you save on "sexy time" toys and gear instead.
  • What's the Get-It-Done Week?
    Great question! Occasionally, I run a Get-It-Done Week to help provide focused support and accountability with completing the content in this micro-course. Usually, there's a pop-up community (e.g., Facebook, Discord) and prizes or incentives to complete the "challenge" by the end of the Get-It-Done Week. This extra support is available to anyone who has purchased the course previously unless otherwise noted.

    TL;DR - this is an opportunity to get 'er done rather than letting this template and videos sit on your virtual shelf for another month or year and do so with a community of others who have invested in this program already.
  • I'm completely new to kink/BDSM. Will I still be able to use this product?
    Absolutely! I created Better BDSM Limit List™ with beginners specifically in mind. There's also a series of simple walkthrough videos that completely explain how to use the spreadsheet template. Third, within the spreadsheet, there's also four intensity categories.  If you are new to kink/BDSM, I recommend looking at the ‘Mild’ category to begin with.
  • I'm very experienced with BDSM and already have a limit list. How is this better than what I use right now?
    Great question! I created the Better BDSM Limit Listâ„¢ because I wanted a better list for myself and my clients that wasn't so overwhelming. Unlike other lists I've come across, this limit list has filters, and sortable categories so you can more easily find what you're looking for in your list or a partner's list. This feature is especially handy when you (or a partner) have triggers around specific activities. You can also more effectively "chunk" your time spent on identifying/updating your limits because you can sort and filter the 275+ inventory items on the Better BDSM Limit List.

    Second, I'm always soliciting feedback on how I can make this product better, and often it's from folx who have decades of practicing and teaching about kink/BDSM, i.e., people who know their shit. If they think it has value, I'm confident you will, too.
  • I don't have a partner. What value will I find in this product?
    Definitely! Even if you don’t have a partner, you can absolutely still explore and experience kink/BDSM. In fact, I first joined the kink community when I was single, and identifying my limits was a first important step for me to feel safe playing with others. You'll also have ongoing access to this product, so you can always revisit the Better BDSM Limit List™ at a later date when you do have a partner.
  • Do you accept refunds?
    Due to the digital nature of this product—and that you can define your limits in just 30 minutes—we do not offer refunds of any kind after purchase. We LOVE receiving feedback and are committed to making this product the best it can be; if there are features you’d like us to add to the limits list, simply let us know! In all reality, once you go through this program, you'll think 'referral' more than 'refund.' We pay a 40% commission to our affiliates on all our products and self-paced courses, so you can make LOTS of money.
  • I have another question not listed here.
    Great! I'm a curious soul myself, and as an educator at-heart, I love answering questions. Simply send an email to kellynoel@kellynoelzeva.com and I'll respond to your inquiry within 2-3 business days, if not sooner.

Don't miss the upcoming Get-It-Done Week!

Saturday, February 3 - Sunday, February 11

Pop-up Facebook group just for course participants 

Two (2) live coworking sessions throughout the week to get 'er done 

1-week challenge where you'll earn $75 Zeva Credit and an invite to an exclusive Ask-Me-Anything (AMA)   

Entry to win raffle prizes worth $1,500+

INSTANT access is waiting for you! 

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